Doing Social Media Well – Listening
Thursday, May 5th, 2011Doing Social Media Well – Listening
We, as a society have been preprogrammed since birth to talk first and listen later. It started in the crib when we cried and got a response from our parents. Some folks haven’t stopped into their 80’s.
Businesses are the same way. And with good reason, before social media there was only push advertising. Businesses cried out to their captive audiences and all who would listen. Television, radio and print all work this way. Public Relations were a lot easier because there was time to formulate and craft nifty responses to all the woes they faced.
PR never faced a response that was so direct and carried the weight that it does with social media. And with everyone listening in now, responses lend themselves to be as straight-shooting as possible, timely, and obviously help address the problem. This all has to come from good listening skills. Can you imagine the outrage the tobacco companies would have faced in the Age of Social Media?
Thinking about this now, blogging about listening is rather odd. There is no direct response, more a delayed reaction which gets muted by time. However, listening is a skill we all should be honing because that’s what actually gets us heard. Sounds bizarre, Listen to be Heard? Yes, Listening allows us to formulate concise and definite responses that are quality in nature and more likely to be heard provided they are timely.
Listening well has the ability to turn a negative experience with a customer into a customer for life. Good, bad, or indifferent, our responses are to the point. And fast.
OK, Mr Smarty, how do I listen better? This is the trick…
Social Media is Simple like our Social Media Isn’t Hard post states.
Follow our guiding principle of Social media, “Helping people is Good Business.” Use your own voice for Social Media of course. Your audience is smart, they can tell.
Don’t push, mention with politeness and provide helpful follow-up feedback like our No Pushing Please in Social Media post states.
Scale your Social Media campaigns so you can keep up with what’s being said. It’s pretty hard to listen if you’re unable to hear or keep up with the conversation.
Always be mindful of your audience. Some are masters and some are newcomers. Take the time to learn who’s who and don’t be afraid to help.
We are constantly trying to become better listeners and sometimes blogging about a topic brings out points we didn’t expect. Such was the case with this Pittsburgh Internet Consulting post. Thank You for reading this. Please sign up to the blog to get our posts delivered by email or RSS. Send us a comment and see how well we do.


With the current state of the Internet what does all this mean in terms of taking your best shot at marketing success? First, buying your audience only through print, TV, billboards, etc. like in the "old days" is just "so 90s," it’s a hook that just doesn't work like it used to.

